The Sweet Spot to Creating Success: Focus on What Matters and What’s Within Your Control

September 7, 2023

Let’s dive into a topic could be the game-changer you’ve been waiting for, setting you on the path from a striving artist to a thriving artist: Finding the sweet spot for creating success. You know what I mean, that magical area where your focus, energy, and actions are aligned not just with what matters, but also with what’s within your control.

Why is This Important?

Have you ever felt overwhelmed or anxious because you’ve been worrying about an upcoming review, the casting choices, or how the audience will react? That’s natural; we all go through it. But here’s the thing: These aspects are often outside our control. You may deliver the performance of a lifetime, but you can’t control how a reviewer interprets it, or who gets cast alongside you.

Shift Your Focus

Check out the Venn diagram above, with one circle representing the “Things that Matter” and the other circle representing the “Things Within Your Control.” The sweet spot for success lies at the intersection of these two circles. That’s where you want to aim your attention.

So, what’s in that sweet spot for a performing artist?

  • Skill Development: You have complete control over honing your skills. Whether it’s singing, dancing, acting, or mastering an instrument—put in the time and effort because this absolutely matters.
  • Networking: Building meaningful relationships in your industry is within your control and can open doors that you never knew existed.
  • Self-Care: Taking care of your body and mind not only affects your performance but also how you interact with others and make decisions.
  • Marketing Yourself: Whether it’s social media or a personal website, getting your name out there is not just important but entirely doable on your end.
  • Goal Setting: This helps you prioritize and provides a roadmap to follow. Goals should be S.M.A.R.T (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, Time-based) and aligned with your career path.

Discipline in Pursuit

Remember, as performing artists, we are always on a journey of constant and never-ending improvement. By disciplining yourself to focus on what’s in your control, you’re making a conscious decision to feed your success.

Create a Positive Culture

While you’re at it, don’t forget to cultivate an environment that’s inclusive, fun, and filled with irreverent joy! Your energy sets the tone for those around you. Share your WOW moments, both big and small. Celebrate the milestones, and always be thankful for the journey you are on.

You’ve Got This!

So, let’s do this. Let’s shift our focus and aim for that sweet spot. Together, we can move from being starving artists to striving artists and, ultimately, to thriving artists… and beyond!

Happy #ThrivingThursday! Let’s #CreateYourSuccess.